What is Exotic Lingerie

First of all, let’s define the meaning of the word exotic. Exotic means; intriguingly unusual, different, excitingly strange, or from another part of the world.

To shorten that phrase up exotic means different, unique or unusual to what you are accustomed to. So if you are searching for exotic lingerie then you are searching for lingerie in which is not normal to you.

The desire for exotic lingerie, shows that you are adventurous and would like to act out the fantasy of “being excitingly strange, or from another part of the world."

And you are thinking to yourself that you need some kind of wild lingerie to fulfill that fantasy. I am here to tell you that whips and chains, are not the only way to go. Just remember this important fact exotic means different and unusual for you.

Here let me give you some examples.

If you are a biker chick and wear leather vests and chaps all the time, then the whips and chains would not be considered unique or different. What would be exotic lingerie for you, would be a cute little pink or white teddy or babydoll with little ruffle but panties.

If you never wear dresses then something like a chemise or sexy club wear dress could be exotic lingerie for you.

If you are the lady whom wears dresses and is usually very feminine, maybe whips and chains will give the shock and awe you are looking for.

Costumes are also a good source of exotic lingerie, with tons of styles and fantasies to choose from.

The whole purpose of wanting exotic lingerie is to feel different than normal, and to shock and excite our partners. And there is something about an abrupt style change, which can boost your spirits and give you that all powerful feeling of confidence saying "I can be and do anything I want".
Men get excited about the unusual and new lingerie choices; it keeps them hanging on the edge of their seat wandering what’s next.

So when you are shopping for exotic lingerie, just remember it doesn't have to be totally wild and crazy to get his attention. Just pick something different than, what you would usually go for, and have fun acting out your fantasies.

By Sherri Myers

http://www.ladystrange.com

Why is Lingerie So Sexy.

What is it about lingerie that men and women find so alluring? Is it the bare skin? Is it the leather or lace or lycra? Is it the promise of what is to come? Is it the tease?

Try an experiment, take 3 images of the same woman, image A she is dressed in blue jeans and a t-shirt, image B she is wearing nothing at all, and image C she is wearing A bustier, garter belt, thong, and fishnet hose. Put the three images in front of a man, and ask him to pick out the sexiest image. You may think he would pick the nude image. I'm sure he will give it a good look over, but when he considers it, he will, more often than not, pick image C.


We believe it has to do with what I call M.E.T. mystery, excitement, and tease. Image A has a normal appearance plenty of mystery, but, no excitement, and very little tease. Image B has plenty of excitement, very little mystery and almost no tease. While Image C has it all. Tease, just enough skin showing to get your attention. Excitement, sure, half dressed is a promise of what is to come. Mystery, oh yeah! Just enough covered to make the mind wonder.


So, lingerie is a great way to provide M.E.T. Why are strippers making money? Because they have used M.E.T. since they started. And the good strippers know how to use M.E.T. well. The question then becomes, are you using M.E.T.? Today's club-wear is so sexy because it provides M.E.T.. Back in the 60's mini-skirts became all the rage because of M.E.T.. Today it is low hip pants with the thong showing in the back. Who knows what the future will bring.


Throughout time lingerie has continued to be sexy. Lingerie has always used M.E.T.. Have you M.E.T. your guy? If you are one of those people that think “Why wear lingerie? I'm just going to take it off in 5 minutes.” The ladies that have discovered lingerie, have discovered just how excited they can get their man using M.E.T.. Now granted my perspective has a lot to do with my profession, I sell lingerie, costumes, club-wear, and hosiery. Why is a straight guy selling lingerie anyway? Because my gal M.E.T.. me.


I know the power of mystery, excitement, and tease. I have experienced it. You should too.

Jim Owns and operates a retail store in Beutiful Downtown Augusta Ga. As well as an on-line catalog of lingerie, clubwear, costumes and more. We have a community of lingerie lovers in our forum, and you can find it all at hotstuffleatherandlace.com

Sexy Lingerie - Hot Tips to Choosing the Right Gift for your Wife

If there's one thing that men love their women to wear, it's

sexy lingerie. If there's one thing that women love to wear, it's beautiful and sensual lingerie.

The challenge for men is to buy lingerie that falls into both these categories. Now, as most men will already know what lights their fire, they need to pay careful attention to the woman's perspective.

Men who get it right will quite probably get the delight of seeing the lingerie on their loved one, but men who get it wrong could well end up in the spare room!

So, what are the key considerations when buying lingerie for your wife or girlfriend?

The number one tip is to avoid anything that looks even vaguely tacky or cheap. Unless you are 100% sure that your wife loves red nylon, garments of this nature are a definite no no. Avoid them at all costs. Make sure you buy good quality branded lingerie, rather than poor quality imitations.

To make a good start, get an idea of her tastes by discreetly checking out what she already has in her smalls drawer. Be careful to leave it as you find it, unless you want 20 questions from her about why you've been in there. If you find a drawer full of t-shirt bras, it doesn't mean that this is what you should buy, it probably just means that she finds them comfortable for everyday wear - bras are a daily necessity for most women and first and foremost they are naturally drawn toward the practical, everyday comfort of a bra, so they'll have more comfy bras in the drawer than anything else.

Take note of things like the brands and styles she wears - when women find a brand they like, they often stick to it as the fit of the bra is more consistent. Use this information to check out what bras might be suitable for her and use a good lingerie site such as BraWorld to find out more about different styles.

Do check the size on the bras you find, but make sure you select bras that your wife or girlfriend wears at the moment, as a woman's bra size can fluctuate throughout her life. You need two bits of size information, her bra band size and her cup size. You'll get both of these from the label. Check a few bras to make sure there is consistency of sizing so that you get it right.

When you're ready to buy, the following checklist may come in handy.

Sumptuous fabrics such as silk and lace are winners with many women - they have a luxurious feel and finish that doesn't come with the everyday bras they buy themselves.

Matching sets are so much better than just a bra, they add style and class to a lingerie gift.

Some brands will always be considered as luxuries by women, it's all to do with reputation, style and quality. If you want to impress her, consider brands at the top end of the lingerie market such as Rigby & Peller and Lejaby.

Rich colours such as dark blue, plum, coffee and claret can be very becoming and add sex appeal to lingerie.

Beautiful embroidery makes lingerie special, so look out for styles that incorporate pretty details.

Avoid anything with cut out sections or peep holes - subtly seductive garments are so much more attractive to women that those that are blatantly revealing. The advice is similar for anything in scarlet, give it a miss unless you know for a fact that she loves red undies.

Gift wrapping is important. There is something utterly luxurious about opening a box full of floaty tissue paper and finding beautiful lingerie inside it.

Balconette and plunge bras are two of the sexiest styles as they enhance natural curves.

Finally, take the occasion into consideration. Beautiful lingerie is a great present for many occasions. It's a lovely way of saying 'thank you', or just 'I love you'. It's not a terribly good idea for her birthday though. Don't ask me why, it just isn't - but that's a whole new article!

Copyright ฉ Alison Thompson